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Remembering our Parents-Pandemic Assisted Loneliness Death and Life
Someday, we will all lose our parents, grand parents, and friends.
If we are parents, our children will ‘lose’ us when we are called Home.
The great senses of loss we expererience are as different as colours in the world of nature, or our unique set of characteristics. How we grieve is directly related to our relationships with our family, to the recently deceased and also intimately telling of how we ourselves view the afterlife. Also, in our present state of (what is deemed to be) pandemic, how often we spent time with and what kind of quality time we spent with our loved one.
It has been said that time heals all wounds, but that adage is only as accurate as our internal grieving. My father died 7 years ago, and while our family has grieved, we have moved forward to live our lives.
It is interesting what can trigger us to revisit our mourning and cast our minds back to those in our past. For me, it was Facebook, and a notice that August 25 would have been his 80th birthday. It just so happens that I had driven by the graveyard he is interred at the same day and while I wanted to stop, I did not.
Later that night when I turned on Facebook, that dreaded notice came up, and the whole experience became more odd.
If he had been alive, there would have been a birthday party, and his great grandchildren would have played around his feet. His grand children would have sat beside him and talked about their weeks and days, and he would have smiled and listened as he was more wont to in his later years. His children would have probably popped by for a visit a couple of times this week and as was his custom, sipped coffee from Darth Vader.
But, despite his absence, we still have customs that help us remember.
If there are family pictures on our walls, we look and recall the good times.
If there are family movies, we turn them on and watch/listen to moments captured in time.
Or we call our mom and share a memory and talk about her day, week, and events.
During the course of any family funeral, you get the opportunity to open the book of the life of your loved one and see what they really left behind. Bills, bank accounts, letters, cards, computer files and email are all laid bare for someone to see. Boxes that sat in the attic or garage are now opened and sorted and appreciated.
That is when you really get to know your father/mother/grand parents.
But if there are any questions after seeing their stuff and making hard decisions, you cannot ask but relatives become a resource.
My family has been blessed with a wealth of life material from parents and grand parents, so when we sorted and separated, we saw my father as a young boy, from his baby clothes to his glasses and wallet contents.
It was a great experience to be able to share my father’s life with his friends and mothers relatives. His funeral drew people we had not seen for many years, and it was a time that we did not appreciate until later.
My mothers last memories of my father are sweet. He had gone outside onto the garden swing and told my mom that he could hardly wait for spring so he could go outside.. By morning he had passed into eternity.
Experiences like that have been verboten since March, and thousands of seniors have died lonely, isolated, and abandoned by family members, all encouraged by public health policy and abusive facility regulations deemed to protect.
There was an experiment I saw recently that had a child under 1 year old interact with his mother actively, then being told to ignore the child. That child reacted negatively with anger, frustration and screaming until the mother re-engaged with the child. It only took 2 minutes for decreased contact and lack of encouragement to recoil and act out. Imagine months of toddlers and pre-schoolers being told that they cannot play with their friends, or socially active individuals to be allowed interaction?
This video was very enlightening, and gave this treatment a name….Child abuse….Elder abuse….
Since Covid19 was deemed a pandemic, citizens of the world have been shut out, shut up and shut down world-wide. What was once normal is no longer so, and instead of a desire to be social beings we are told to be fearful of everyone because they may carry the virus that might kill Aunt Sadie. The truly sad comment is that this campaign of callousness has been so severe that some people will never recover and re-engage public lives again.
It seems that intelligence, logic, and good statistics are now also forbidden when discussing Covid numbers and penetration. Passion and fear have overwhelmed facts, and in the process, people lose and policy is imposed with questionable ethics.
Lonely is safer (and recommended) than social gatherings with positive relationship outcomes.
In fact, as some have pointed out, Nazi Germany under Hitler practised the same tactics to near global domination. In some ways, I do not think that comparison is not far off.
Back to my point, by trying to protect the vulnerable among us we have sentenced them to death by isolation. Our medical officials and government officials are guilty of something so dreadful it should not be said.
My father, like so many who died before this disease hit us, would not recognize our world of fear and paranoia. In some ways, neither do I.
May God have mercy on our souls.
Tim Lasiuta
Originally published August 29, 2020
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First Battle of Alberta this NHL season to bring big boost to Child Advocacy Centre!
From the Central Alberta Child Advocacy Centre
The Edmonton Oilers MEGA 50/50 is BACK in support of three amazing organizations
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Winners announced for Red Deer Hospital Lottery
The Red Deer Regional Health Foundation has announced the winners of the 2024 Red Deer Hospital Lottery Dream Home and Tiny Home prize packages, as well as the Mega Bucks 50.
The Mega Bucks 50 jackpot reached $607,200.00, which makes Carolyn Pelerine of Cochrane, Alberta the winner of $303,600.00.
In addition, the luxurious Tree Hugger Tiny Home Prize Package, complete with accessories by Urban Barn and valued at $163,798.00, is now owned by Mary Vincent of Red Deer.
The coveted Sorento Dream Home Prize Package, which includes furnishings and accessories by Urban Barn and boasts a total value of $1,072,624.00, has been awarded to Maxine Rumohr of Sylvan Lake.
The highly anticipated draw took place at 10:00 a.m. Thursday at the Red Deer Regional Health Foundation office, located within the Red Deer Regional Hospital Centre, with an announcement following live on Facebook, allowing participants and supporters to join in the excitement virtually.
“We are delighted to congratulate the winners of this year’s Red Deer Hospital Lottery,” said Manon Therriault, Chief Executive Officer of the Red Deer Regional Health Foundation. “The funds raised from this lottery will significantly contribute to enhancing patient care and services at the Red Deer Regional Hospital Centre. We extend our heartfelt gratitude to everyone who participated and supported this important cause.”
Proceeds from the Red Deer Hospital Lottery and Mega Bucks 50 will contribute to acquiring critically needed, state-of-the-art equipment for several units at the Red Deer Hospital.
This year’s lottery will fund equipment such as a phototherapy system, which allows parents to hold and soothe their infant while undergoing phototherapy, a cardiology case cart to monitor cardiac rhythms during stress testing, and other equipment to help provide excellent care for patients in the emergency and operating rooms at the Red Deer Hospital.
The winners of a variety of electronics were also drawn today. A full list of winners will be available in the coming days on the official lottery website at reddeerhospitallottery.ca. Prize winners who have not already been notified will receive a letter in the mail with instructions on how to claim their prizes.
The keys to the Sorento Dream Home and the Tree Hugger Tiny Home will be presented to the winners at a special ceremony this summer.
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